Connection

Resources for the journey between gatherings.

A running list of websites and books Ajai recommends for widows navigating grief, faith, and healing.

Recommended Websites


Recommended Books

While every woman has a different grief journey, certain books and resources have proven to be helpful to me and others I support. Take your time and drink from the experiences and stories of other women as you read and soak in the wisdom and knowledge.

Ajai's Personal Favorite

A Widow's Journey: Reflections on Walking Alone

This little gem of a book allows you to walk alongside the writer as she writes of her emotions following the loss of her beloved husband. Her compassionate words will resonate with your own loss and encourage you through those dark and lonely days. A keepsake!

Best for: Reflections on daily life as a widow

  • Written by someone who lived the pains of widowhood from a Christian perspective
  • Restores faith in God to find your deepest comfort

It's OK That You're Not OK

Best for: Anyone newly grieving who's tired of toxic positivity

  • Validates that grief is terrible and doesn’t need fixing
  • Challenges the "everything happens for a reason" mentality
  • Written by a therapist who lost her partner suddenly

A Grief Observed

Best for: Those comfortable with a Christian perspective and a philosophical slant

  • Raw journal entries from Lewis after losing his wife
  • Honest reflections on anger at God and deep spiritual crisis

Option B: Facing Adversity, Building Resilience, and Finding Joy

Best for: Widows with young children, focused on resilience

  • Practical advice on building resilience
  • Research-based strategies for coping

I Wasn't Ready to Say Goodbye

Best for: Understanding many types of grief scenarios, including the loss of a spouse

  • Specific to sudden loss
  • Addresses shock and trauma
  • Offers practical coping strategies